My friend FY called me this morning to ask me if I know a particular person at the board office. Then the conversation lead to if I could make a phone call for her instead to enquire about the registration for some international visa students. Sometimes, FY thinks that I am a wonder woman who knows everybody and have all the contacts to get information. Well, I don’t! But, I do have thick skin and I am not afraid of asking questions around.
I am actually a very quiet person who enjoys observing others rather than blabbering all the time. One thing I’ve learned in
I remember when I was at junior high school, I was always assigned to represent the schools to participate in formal speech or poetry reading competitions. I might have shown some interest in the beginning of my Grade Six class for poetry reciting, but I was not good at it at all. Then I got better after all the opportunities I had been given throughout the years. In fact, the schools always sent the same students because there were not enough people who showed interest or were brave enough to attend public speaking competitions. My family used to joke about what to do with the awards I won, not enough to wallpaper the wall, but too many to hang up on the wall. Hahaha. So, since my Grade Six class, I had been trained not to be afraid of standing on the stage and facing the crowds, but to speak loud and clear in front of the large group of people.
Later on when I went to Fu Jen Catholic U, I was in love with performance arts. I directed an English school play and was involved in a few performances myself. The experiences were added to my public speaking skills, so I became a natural when I had to speak on the radio, in front of the students or with clients for business dealings. I am not afraid to ask questions, either. I am actually a very quiet person but certainly not shy.
Now I often apply my performing skills to deliver instructions to the little ones in my class. It is sometimes funny to listen to the students’ comment about me. Some students at school think that I am very funny, but they are also afraid of me because I am very strict. I am not a clown and certainly do not portray myself as one to entertain my students in class; however, I have to be able to deliver my instructions to my students in a very effective, efficient and exciting manners so that my students are able to direct their attention to me for a prolonged period of time. They have to be willing to listen to me and understand me clearly. This is the skill that we absolutely have to encompass as a teacher. The truth is that public speaking is absolutely vital nowadays. We need it for every day work life, but most schools seem to ignore the importance of this particular skill development.
Another important part of the oral language skills is listening and questioning skills. Children are very good at asking questions when they were little. They ask adults about how and why things have happened all the time and they listen to their explanations. As they get older, they start to feel conscientious about whether they have correct answers or not. They are afraid to make mistakes and then they stop asking questions all together. In fact, some kids become awfully shy and they don’t say anything unless they are chosen by the teachers to answer questions.
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How many Chinese students would consider themselves shy when it comes to public speaking or communicating in English? They learn English since the Grade Seven, and now for the new education system, they are starting English classes as young as kindergarten. We have channeled so much energy and resources to the second language development, but why are there still adults like FY who can read and write well but is afraid to open her mouth to communicate in English after living in
“If you don’t use it, you lose it.” This applies to language learning. Many of us who went through Taiwanese education have learned English for at least 6 years. We should have some basic English skills to strike a simple conversation. All we have to do is just “use it”!